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Why Is Forgiveness Complicated by afeeztunde5(m): 12:23 am On 1 Jan 2019
Forgiveness can be tricky and complicated because in most cases, we do not know why we forgive or if we are ready to forgive but rather we chose to follow the crowd based on religious and cultural sentiments and beliefs.
Forgiveness is a beautiful thing when done right, but sometimes we convince ourselves that we have forgiven others when in reality all we did is bury the hurt and the pain and anger and move on like it doesn’t exist.
The thing about burying your feelings is that it will always find a way to come out someday. So in forgiveness, you have to let yourself feel that hurt and gravity of betrayal or pain and then you give yourself time to make peace with it. And most of all you try to forgive and stop blaming yourself for not knowing better.
You haven’t forgiven if you still feel hurt and anger when you look at the person. And no amount of smiles directed at this person will make it go away.
To forgive does not necessarily mean to forget, but it means that you make peace with the hurting and you remember without feeling resentment or anger.
Forgiveness is not as easy as it seems, so give yourself time.

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