LADIES STOP COMPLICATING ISSUES
Ladies, sometimes you are the ones who
complicate your lives. When a man pursues
you but you are not interested, some of you
do fishy stunts.
1. Some of you keep asking money from the
man hoping that will deter him. A man who
is serious about pursuing you will not be
deterred by this, he will keep giving you the
money, some even go into debts just to
please you thinking that you are serious and
you need him. This is wrong and deceitful.
Stop using the man
2. Some of you get into a relationship with a
man just to pass time knowing very well you
are not serious about him. You even get to
have s*x with him, or entertain him in your
chats, or use him to run your errands then
when you are done you drop him and
expect him to be fine yet you led him on
3. Some of you pretend you have a man to
keep off the man pursuing you. You lie that
you have a man or that you are married, you
even go to the extent of wearing a fake
marriage ring and change your relationship
status to "in a relationship" or "married" to
keep off one man or a few men you don't
like then you are the same person who
complains that you are still single. Even if
your future spouse was to spot you, he will
not make a move thinking you are taken. By
lying to the men you don't want, you end up
chasing away the man you would want
4. Some of you when the man you are not
interested in pursues you, instead of giving
him an answer you keep him hanging,
entertaining him, pulling his leg because you
love his attention. This is not fair, giving him
false hopes
Uncomplicate your life, stop trying tricks. Let
your yes be yes and your no be no. Teach
yourself how to say a firm NO.
In fact, both men and women, learn to be
direct. When someone you are not
interested in makes a move on you, tell them
straight up "NO! I am single, but you and I
cannot be". Release them early so that they
focus their energy in finding someone who
will be interested in them.
Grown ups can handle rejection, what
wrongs them is someone who plays mind
games. Be straight forward.
