Dear Bunmi,
For a couple of years, I had a good relationship
with my ex but got fed up with his philandering
that I ended the affair. I recently ran into him at a
party and discovered I still love him. He
apologised for hurting me and we went back to
his flat together.
We’re now back together. Recently, I scrolled
through his mobile and found the image of a
semi-nude pretty girl. When I showed it to him,
he said she was someone he went out with when
we broke up. That she meant nothing to him.
I find it difficult to believe this judging by his
cheating in the past.
Wura, by e-mail.
Dear Wura,
It is understandable that you feel insecure about
your man if his cheating caused you to split up
the first time around,
But if you are to make the relationship work this
time, you need to leave the past behind and give
him the benefit of the doubt.
You have no real reason to think he’s telling you
anything other than the truth. So believe him or
your suspicious mind will end up ruining your
relationship.
He obviously didn’t lead a chaste life when you
were apart, but it’s now that counts. Trust him,
unless he does something to destroy that trust.
source:
www.vanguardngr.com/2019/02/he-has-a-semi-nude-girl-in-his-phone/
