Every woman expects her man fulfill some
obligations. When he fails to do so, she is hurt
deeply. She may be left with a broken heart if
her man cheats on her. The reasons behind a
woman's broken heart may differ. Her man might
have fallen in love with another woman. He
refused to marry her. Or he simply disappeared.
He might have hurt in other ways.
Though the causes differ, the consequence is
usually the same 'heartbreak. Here are a few
truths that women left with broken hearts should
know:
Men usually do not think the way women do
'Men are from Mars and women are from Venus.
How can both think in the same way? If your
man broke your heart, somewhere you might not
have been able to understand him. Besides, if
the relationship did not fail because of you, there
is no point crying your heart out for a worthless
fellow.
Very often, Men fear to lose their freedom 'It's
usually the woman who dreams of a home,
husband and children. As far as men are
concerned, they may fear making commitments.
Being committed in a long term relationship
simply spells the doom for their freedom and
independence. If you compel your man to marry
you when is not ready to do so, you simply
frighten him away.
Men are aggressive 'Even the most caring of the
men are aggressive to some extent. They even
love to dominate (remember the influence of
Mars!). It's you who is from Venus. Be more
caring. If you want to keep your man, do not
bruise his ego, lest he may run away leaving you
with a broken heart.
Space is important in a relationship 'Give your
man the required space. Do not monitor his
every move. Checking his e-mails and mobile
time and again sends a wrong message across.
Moreover, do not turn critical every time he
smiles at other women. It may be a common
courtesy. Remember if you willingly
misunderstand him every time, it only increases
the probability of your being left with a broken
heart.
Give your relationship some time 'A relationship
evolves over time. You will be able to understand
him better and adjust accordingly after you have
known him for some time. If he is a sensible and
a sensitive soul, he too would understand you far
better as the time goes by. The bond of love and
affection only gets stronger with every passing
day. It will be highly unrealistic of you to expect
him to understand all your likes and dislikes
within a few days. If you have unrealistic
expectations, what could be the result except
heartbreak?
And do not forget that a relationship, besides
offering rewards, also demands that a few duties
be fulfilled. If you want him to value you, value
him first! Stand by him through thick and thin of
life. If you are conscious of your rights only, then
what you get is sheer heartbreak.
Broken hearted girl .
