It’s good to check in with yourself from time to time to see how you’re feeling about your relationship. The questions below focus on romantic and s*xual relationships, but they can apply to other kinds of relationships, too. After you’ve asked yourself these questions, it could be helpful to answer them again from your partner’s perspective.
1 Does your partner listen to and respect your ideas?
2 Does your partner give you space to spend time with your friends and family?
3 Do you have fun spending time together?
4 Do you feel comfortable telling your partner when something they do upsets you?
5 Do you feel comfortable sharing your thoughts and feelings?
6 Can you tell your partner what you like s*xually?
7 Does your partner make an effort to get along with your friends and family?
8 Is your partner proud of your accomplishments and successes?
9 Does your partner respect your differences?
10 Can you talk to your partner about birth control and/or safer s*x?
Relationships can be complicated, but if you answered “yes†to all of these questions, there’s a good chance you’re in a healthy relationship. If you answered “no†to two or more questions, you might be in an unhealthy relationship.
