As a rule, at the very beginning of dating
while virtual or real communication
women talk a lot and men just answer their
questions. Most often, this behavior scares
men, and they try to distance themselves
and not continue the relationship. If you do
not want to get into a similar situation, you
have to choose questions that will help you
learn more about the man, get closer to
him and at the same time not to frighten
him. A list of relevant questions to ask a
guy can be found in
Questions to ask a guy to get to know him
At the very beginning of your virtual or
personal communication, it is clear that
you can ask his name. Very often a
name in the social network can be fake.
But what are you going to ask next? We
suggest you a list of good questions to
ask a guy in different situations.
Did you like my photos?
Do you often write to beautiful girls
on the Internet?
Do you have free time for sports,
meetings with friends and family?
Do you have a tattoo?
Are you looking for just a friend or
girlfriend? (to find out his intentions)
Do you feel comfortable if you go to a
restaurant or a movie alone?
How do you see the perfect weekend?
How do you see yourself in 5 years?
(just to check his self-confidence)
Do you live alone or with your
parents?
Do you think that men should rule
the world? (just to find out if he is
feministically orientated or not)
How long can you be angry with a
person who is important to you?
Do you often forget about significant
dates?
How many accounts in different
social networks do you have?
How much time do you spend surfing
the Internet?
Can you tell me something about
your profession? (you can ask this
question among the other ones, but,
actually, nowadays it is considered
not very observant)
What do you like the most about your
job? (this question is better than
previous because you demonstrate
that you are interested in his work as
an aspect of his life but not as an
aspect of his income)
Do you go in for sports?
Do you like reading?
What is your favorite book?
When was the last time you visited a
concert/ movie/theater?
Do you often quarrel with your loved
ones?
Do you like surprises?
What do you like more: read books or
watch movies?
Do you believe in Zodiac?
Where do you come from?
Do you have a hobby?
Which music do you like?
Do you have pets?
What is your favorite colour?
What style of clothes do you like best
and how often do you wear such
clothes?
What book have you read recently?
How do you feel about animals?
Do you remember the name of your
favorite school teacher? (just to check
how he cares about details)
How long can you live without light,
water, and the Internet?
What traits of the character are the
most annoying for you in people?
Can you forgive a loved one for the
offense that caused you pain?
What are you dreaming off
currently?
How do you feel about couples in
which a woman is slightly older than
a man?
Who is your favorite actor/actress/
movie director/singer?
Till which age have you believed
miracles? (Santa Claus, Good wizard)
Did you have a nickname in
kindergarten/school/institute?
Do you like to sleep for a long time or
you prefer to get up with the first
beams of the sun?
Do you like traveling?
Do you like mountains or the sea?
And any other not very personal
questions. But remember, that it is not a
quiz, and you do not have to ask
everything at once expecting for his
sincere answers. Chose 2 or 3 best
questions just to be able to develop your
conversation. If a man is interested in
you too, he will also help you with his
questions.
Actually, you should be very careful
with the questions to ask on a date. We
remind you one more time that a man
goes out with you not to take part in a
quiz, but to communicate with you. It is
okay if you will not manage to ask all
the questions you wanted to ask, just be
natural, and you will have more
opportunities to do this. So, among all
possible questions you can ask a guy, we
offer you these:
What music do you listen to when
you are happy/bored/in a depressed
mood?
Do you think football is more
dynamic than hockey?
Can you dance?
What is your favorite football team?
(you will surprise him with this
question)
How often do you allow yourself to
relax during the work week?
Do you often visit your parents?
Do you believe in friendship between
a man and a woman? (but do not
scare him with the idea of a friend
zone)
What books do you read? (fantasy,
horror, crime, historical, scientific
fiction)
Do you have brothers and sisters?
How do you feel about people who
spend all their free time in the
virtual world?
Have you anticipated our meeting?
What do you think I liked about you?
What does attract you in women?
Describe yourself in three words.
Do you consider yourself a romantic
personality?
Could you, for the sake of your
beloved girl, commit an insane act?
What do you think about love from
first sight?
Could you give up your dream for the
sake of your loved one?
How many times have you fallen in
love and how long did your last
relationship last?
Should your darling be perfect in
everything or she still may have
minor drawbacks?
You also can ask funny and interesting
questions to a guy. An intelligent man
will appreciate it. But do not expect a
quick answer from him as long as these
questions ate created to make him smile
and you, at the same time can check the
degree of his seriousness and sense of
humor. The examples of such questions:
If you were an actor, what kind of
roles do you think you would be good
at?
What is the most useless thing you
know how to do?
What’s the most ridiculous tattoo
you’ve ever seen?
Would you volunteer to colonize
another planet if it meant you would
never return to earth?
What’s the best part of your day?
If you could show everyone in the
world one image for 10 seconds, but
it couldn’t contain text, what image
would you choose?
What would you do if you became a
girl for one day?
What’s a piece of advice that you
wish everyone would take to heart?
Some ladies, of course, sometimes ask
the questions below on the first date,
but we still advise you not to ask these
questions at your first or even second
date. Wait until you know each other
better and use the following questions
to get closer to him:
How long can you live without
intimate relationships with a
woman?
What do you think about polygamous
men?
Who taught you to kiss?
Do you think that a girl should be
kept untouched before the wedding?
What three events made the most
significant impact on who you are
today?
Do you tell your close friends details
about your relationships?
What can upset you to tears?
Why did you split up with your ex-
girlfriend?
Have you cheated on your ex?
Do you think your childhood was
better or worse than other people
growing up in a similar place and
time?
Do you have any secrets that you
could share with me?
Tell me about one thing, important or
not, about which you never talked to
anyone else?
What will be your reaction to the
betrayal of a loved one?
If you could change your past, which
moment would you choose?
Tell me what you are so afraid of?
Have you ever been ashamed of your
heavy drinking?
If you had the opportunity to start
your life from the very beginning,
would you use this opportunity?
Tell me about your first love
experience with a woman?
How many times have you thought
about kissing me before you decided
on this? (if you have already kissed)
Do you think a woman can dominate
the bed?
What is your opinion about the
relationships with no obligation?
Do you like visiting strip bars?
What is the most important thing for
you in life?
In what situation will you never
compromise?
Who knows you better than anyone?
Have you ever cried while watching a
movie?
What is the highest pressure situation
you have experienced and how did
you handle it?
Do you have character traits that you
would like to change?
What would you change in yourself?
Be sure that your questions will not
offend your partner. The questions must
help you to expand the range of topics
for conversation and to avoid silence in
your dialogue. Do not insist on his
complete opening to you at once, be
natural and listen for him when he
speaks. If you do everything calmly and
tactfully, the man of your dream will be
yours!
