This generation is probably the most s*xually
adventurous generation of all time and with the
help of gadgets and social media, people can
explore their s*xuality in various ways.
Sending and receiving nudes is a very rampant
occurrence among men and women of all ages,
so much so that on September 11, 2011 popular
messaging app Snapchat was created but then it
was called “Picaboo†and was originally marketed
as an app to safely send nude photos.
To an extent, it has become a part and parcel of
the average relationship today because the term
“Send Nudes†is as common as anything in
conversations between lovers and even friends
today.
We asked twelve random adults about their views
on the matter and they had the following to say
(M represents male and F represents Female);
M – He was okay with it and admitted to sending
and receiving nudes regularly from different
lovers.
F – She was okay with the idea but personally
doesn’t engage in it because she feels the best
way to handle s*xual urge is to simply have s*x
as opposed to going back and forth with nudes.
M – He believes that it’s only acceptable between
married couples but feels that if you must send,
you should at least exclude your face to protect
yourself.
M – He was strongly against the idea and felt
that in a situation where the phone is stolen,
pictures and videos are at the thieves disposal.
M – He felt that as long as both parties have an
understanding and don’t show their faces it is
okay.
F – She was okay with the idea and admitted to
often sending nudes to her boyfriend whenever
she felt like.
M – He admitted that he and his girlfriend who
are in a long distance relationship often send
nudes to keep things exciting and also so that
the relationship doesn’t lose its s*x factor and
get boring.
F – She stated that she was okay with it in the
past but with the recent cases of leaks by
disgruntled lovers, she no longer sends nudes.
M – He was against the idea for “security
reasons†stating that he has political ambitions
and he wouldn’t want anything that could tarnish
his image in the future.
F – She admitted that she was once blackmailed
by an ex-boyfriend who threatened to “leak her
nudes†unless she stays in what she described as
an abusive relationship so the idea of nudes is
totally cancelled in her head.
M – He was indifferent about the idea and claims
he personally wouldn’t send anyone his nudes
because he doesn’t get the appeal.
F – She admitted that before she got married,
she was s*xually adventurous but now she is no
longer open to it because she feels there is no
need anymore.
Source:
guardian.ng/life/people-speak-on-
sending-nudes-in-relationships/
