This time of recession is a time to learn so many things about people and see the burden laid on men(human being)
(1) Girls cutting hair- It's like I'm just noticing it, everyone around is cutting their hair, (what's the problem? I began to ask myself)
I met a beautiful woman who has a very long hair but has cut it off, I won't let this woman go without asking her I said to myself. Politely I asked, "Why did you cut your hair, she said her husband told her to, I asked why but she smiled and I understood that the smile means I'm not telling you, so I left her.
Fortunately I met a young lady too, I asked her why she had to cut her hair and she simply said "my boyfriend said I will look good and younger if I cut it" so I left her too but I guess her conscience didn't let her rest after talking to me so she called me back and said she lied to me and she gave me so many reasons(relaxer expensive, making of hair expensive etc)hmm, I was excited hearing that and I said thanks.
What a burden men(human) has laid on themselves, instead of cutting your hair,you can Just make your hair natural, just has it ought to be the amount of money you will spend making it weekly can't be compared to what you do use to fix the artifical hair.
I met someone who asked for the price of my hair and I said #200. He said, You are coming to my house this weekend to see my wife;I said why, he said she collect nothing less than #4000 to #5000 to make her hair and the annoying part is that if she get home and feels she inconvenient with the hair, she will just pull it off(what a waste)(I met with this woman and we got talking and sincerely if one should see what she uses her hair to plait, one will really love)(I love you so much ma for listening and seeing the benefits afterwards
Why don't you save this money for the benefits of the children's future(all can't go on well for life like it seems today) you are not married you say(I learnt this from my mum, she said,she Prayed for her unborn children even when she was not married) we can also apply this by saving up money for the unseen future.
(2) Girls facial look- well should I say you just need to free yourself from some burden. There again did I see a beautiful lady I use to know look like a widow(why now, I asked her what's wrong with you, I could not hide my feelings because that look was out of it. Then she said I don't have money for make up, I said but you will have at least cream your face, she said my cream worth........and I don't have money to get it. What a burden when you can't balance up your life during the good and bad times of life.
There again did I hear about this pretty lady, she said 'i don't have money with me, Please can I get any amount from you to buy food stuff " well her friend was about giving her money when she said, Please escort me to that store, I want to get something, she got there and bought a lot of make up, the lady who escorted her said, why don't you use the money you used to buy all these to buy food stuff then this funny lady replied; if its the money that is left for me to eat that its with me and my make up has finished, I prefer to buy make up than food stuff (Hmmm) Then she said, what of the money you want to give me, the lady told her its better you return all this rubbish and buy food because I won't give you a kobo. Well she taught her friend was joking until her friend went to her room and closed her door.
Then I imagined , when this type of lady gets married. Her children her crying for food. The woman comes with make up and says I only have money for make up and not for food, let your father come back(I don't know what the children will think or do at that point) Well I pray she will change before then.
"Why the burden"
