Your Pastor cannot and should not choose your life partner for you. God knows who is best for you and he will tell you, God doesn't have a grandchild so he doesn't need to send a message to a child to tell another child who is best for him/her. "Everyone is entitled to hear directly from him"
If a Pastor chooses for you, when the trouble comes, your Pastor wont be there every time to handle it but when God chooses, you run back to him during challenges and he will solve the case.
Remember little can your Pastor do when problem arises but God can do all things when the storm arises- Proverbs 20 vs 24. If you say your Pastor has chosen for you and you go ahead with it remember- 1st Kings 22 vs 1-12 but take note of 19-22, don't forget vs 6; they were four hundred prophets
Malachi 3 vs 15- Has not (the LORD) made them one? In flesh and spirit they are his. And why one? Because he was seeking godly offspring. So guard yourself in your spirit, and do not break faith with the wife of your youth.-( what I want to bring out here is just this " because he was seeking godly offspring"..... .. .. how do you Raise a godly offspring when the LORD is not the foundation of your home. How do you Raise a godly offspring when you can't hear your maker speak to you directly on how to guide your steps.
My great people you cannot give what you don't have. You cannot Raise a godly child when you aren't godly except God touches the life of the child. Go and see where errors start from. They are from the home, where children do not have encounter with God, where parents cannot teach their children to pray and read the BIBLE. If you fail, You fail....The best is to follow his instruction so you do not fail. Let GOD decide and lay the foundation of that home for you so your home doesn’t collapse after years of building.
Marry a man/woman whom God has chosen for you, someone whose Focus is on God, one whom you will both go on your knees when issue arises and not one who will run here and there over every issue. One whose final decision is based on GOD'S decision.
Please who gives those people wisdom and power(GOD) then Why don't you seek him directly. When GOD choose for you he becomes the foundation of your home.
In conclusion- Allow GOD lay the foundation of your home and you will have a godly and blessed home. Remain blessed.
