There’s no magic formula to cure a
broken heart, that’s for sure. On the
flip side, there isn’t a love potion that
I know of that’s going to make
someone fall for you.
What you can do is increase the odds
you will get the girl you want by
following these expert and practically
proven tips.
1. OPEN YOUR EARS
Girls like a man that’s going to listen
to their problems and when you open
your ears and let them talk, you are
one step up on any other guy in
pursuit. Make sure you don’t push
her to make a decision. She just
wants you to listen so she can work it
out.
Of course if she asks for your advice,
you should give it. Just make sure you
aren’t pushing too hard with it or
she’ll close the door fast.
2. GIVE HER COMPLIMENTS
Who doesn’t like a nice compliment
now and then? Just please don’t give
her fake praise or she will kick your
B*tt to the curb fast. Make sure the
compliment is genuine and sincere
and not too deep.
If you overdo it, I can guarantee this
pointer will backfire big time.
Flatter her a little and she will
reward you handsomely.
3. SUPPORT HER ROYALLY
Think of this like you might a
cheerleader. You need to show her
you will be there to encourage her on
and support her in her daily battles.
This doesn’t mean you have to agree
with everything she does and says,
that would make you a pushover
puppet.
However, you should show her you
appreciate and respect her for her
life choices. That’s just plain magical
in the dating game.
4. DON’T BE AFRAID TO PLAY THE
CHIVALRY CARD
This is where you are going to
capture her attention and rock her
world. Too many guys today seem to
forget their manners. When you treat
a lady properly, it will never ever go
out of style.
Open the door for her. Pull out her
chair. Give her your coat on a chilly
evening.
When you show her she’s worth
being treated specially, you will be
squeezing your way into her heart
for all the right reasons. Give it a
shot! You’ve got nothing to lose.
5. GIVE HER ALL OF YOUR
ATTENTION
I know this one isn’t so easy
considering the technology we’ve got
to our fingertips. If you are serious
about showing this girl you deserve
to have her fall in love with you,
then you need to keep all eyes on
her.
This means putting your phone away
and definitely not watching other
girls walk into the room.
You will come across as a prick if you
can’t give her your full attention. The
choice is yours.
6. TELL HER HOW MUCH YOU
ENJOY SPENDING TIME WITH
HER
This can come in all sorts of different
shapes and forms. You can tell her
face to face that you really enjoy
hanging out with her. Another route
is to drop her a text or email to make
sure she knows that she’s on your
mind.
Or you can drop her a line on social
media. You just want to make it
crystal clear that you like being with
her. She needs to know that if you
are going to be successful making her
fall in love with you.
7. NURTURE THE LOVE
You need to stand out and in order
to do this, you’ve got to take care of
the little things. Give her flowers or
some sort of surprise just because.
Don’t wait until a special occasion to
show her how you feel.
This will help to make her feel loved
and appreciated and that’s a direct
route to making her fall in love with
you. End of story.
8. MR. CLEAN IS A GOOD
THING
Truth be told, if you are leaving your
dirty socks on the floor and the sink
filled with your dishes, you are
killing the romance.
Girls like it clean and that means you
need to make every effort to clean up
after yourself and not leave it to her,
no matter what she says.
You should know by now that girls
say one thing and mean another
more often than not.
Like it or lump it because that’s just
the way it is.
9. MUSIC MAKES THE HEART
GROW FONDER
There’s just something about a man
that sings. Girls go crazy over it.
Guess there’s just something about a
bad boy rock star. This doesn’t mean
you have to be a rocker to get a girl.
But if you’ve got some singing skills
in your back pocket, that’s a good
thing.
If not, just show her you are
passionate in some other genre.
Passion is perfect when combined
with love.
10. FUNNY IS IN
When you show a girl you can be
light hearted and funny, you are one
step closer to getting her walls down
so you can jump in.
Laughter is the best medicine and
when you show a girl you can be
funny, or at least try, you will get
into her heart and mind fast.
So let loose and get a little silly if you
are serious about getting the girl for
keeps.
11. PLAY IT COOL
The very last thing a girl wants is a
high strung man that just can’t play it
cool. If you show her you’ve got the
innate ability to diffuse spicy
situations and shrug off the small
things, you are going to show her
straight up she’d be crazy not to fall
in love with you.
Just trust me on this one please.
12. CONNECT WITH FRIENDS
AND FAMILY
You are certified crazy if you don’t
think this girls friends and family
aren’t going to influence her decision
to open up to you or not.
If you can get in the good books with
her loved ones, she will get the
encouragement she needs to fall in
love with you.
Let her family and friends work for
you in your quest. Having an outside
source tell you that you should be
with a guy really is magical.
13. KEEP IT POSITIVE
If you don’t have anything nice to
say about her friends and family,
make sure you keep it to yourself.
One of the worst things you can do is
dish the people she loves and is
connected with.
Negativity gets you nowhere fast, just
saying.
14. STEP AWAY FROM TIME
TO TIME
The last thing you want to do is show
this special girl that you have nothing
but her. That makes you out to be
needy and insecure and that’s
definitely not what you want.
Sure, it’s important that you show
her she is special to you. But you
don’t need to make her your
everything just yet. Take the time to
hang out with other people and that
alone will make her fall hard for you.
That just forces her to work for your
attention and that’s needed in the
relationship world.
15. SLOW AND STEADY DOES
WIN THE RACE
Life is often way too fast. We are
always so busy wanting to do more
in less time. Take a step back from
time to time and slow the pace. Turn
the music up and give her a slow
dance whenever you feel the urge.
That’s just romantically thoughtful
and she will love it on every level.
16. TIMING IS VITAL
When you are on time, you are
showing her that you respect her
time. Just don’t show up late for a
date, no matter what. Of course there
are the inevitable that pop up and
make it pretty much impossible for
you to be on time, but they should be
the exception to the rules.
Do whatever it takes to make sure
you are punctual and that magic will
unfold.
17. FAMILY IS VIP
When you make the time to
introduce her to your family, you are
showing her that she is special to
you. And when you are trying to
make her fall in love with you, that’s
golden.
Show her off to your family and be
sure to treat your family with love
and respect so she can see how you
will treat her in the long run.
Makes perfect sense.
18. SURPRISES ARE MAGICAL
When you take the time to surprise
her, you will win your way into her
heart. Shoot her a message at work to
let her know you are thinking about
her. Leave her a voicemail or note in
her purse to make her smile.
This just reiterates the fact you are a
thoughtful man that deserves her
attention.
19. BE CARING
This goes without saying but when
she is feeling under the weather, you
need to show her you’ll take care of
her. Make her soup or bring her a
box of Kleenex. Do whatever you
need to in order to help her feel
better quickly and get back on her
feet.
This is the sort of thing that shows a
girl it’s about time she fell in love.
Hard and fast works.
20. TOP NOTCH HYGIENE
This one is a given. If you are serious
about getting a girl to fall head over
heels for you, then you need to make
certain you never leave the house
unless you are showered, shaved, and
smelling like a million bucks.
21. START TALKING
It’s natural to feel nervous around a
beautiful girl. Just chill! If you allow
your anxiety to get the best of you,
then you might as well write the love
thing off now.
Drop your guard and muster up the
courage to just go talk with her. Trust
me, it will be appreciated.
22. SLIP PAST THE NASTY
SHIELD
More often than not, a pretty woman
is witchy first when a guy gives them
a compliment. Think of it as a
defensive shield that’s essential to
keep the pricks out.
Think about it for a minute. When a
girl is hit on by oodles of guys, she’s
got to figure out a way to deflect
them right?
Just turn up the charm and show her
you are more interesting than all the
other guys. She’ll bite if it’s meant to
be.
23. CONNECT WITH HER
ENTOURAGE
No doubt a woman’s friends will
naturally protect her from any man
they believe is bad news. This means
if you are ugly, creepy or just plain
rude, you don’t stand a chance.
So you’ve either got to get into the
good books fast or bring some eye
candy with you to keep them oogling.
Cute guys should do the trick keeping
them busy while you go in and at
least get her number.
Time to step up to the plate and
whack a homer if you really want to
make that girl fall in love with you.
24. TAKE ACTION TO PLAY
BOTH SIDES OF THE FENCE
This is a tough one to master but
where there’s a will, there’s a way!
You need to both play hard to get
and show her you like her. When you
balance this tightrope perfectly, it
will help you win the prize.
25. CREATE THE PERFECT
TEXT
Be careful here because girls tend to
naturally over analyze text messages.
In other words, they put them under
the microscope and often make them
into more than they really are.
You’ve got your work cut out for you.
Think of all the texts she gets each
day and your focus is to make yours
stand out. Open your mind and think
outside the box. Keep it short and
sweet and memorable. Do that and
your headed in the right direction.
26. BECOME AN EXPERT IN
HITTING BACK
No worries, I’m referring to texting.
When your girl shoots you a text, you
need to make every effort within
reason, to send one right back to her.
Think tennis here.
The length of your shot and the
timing is critical. Pay attention to
every shot you take if you want to
end up winning the girl.
27. DIVE INTO THE ROMANCE
If you want a woman to love you,
then you are going to have to show
her. What better way than to take the
time to create a super romantic date?
Think of what she likes and
appreciates and build from there.
Make sure there’s some flirting and
fun and lots going on so boredom has
zero chance of getting into the
picture.
Nail this one and you’ll get to nail
her too, if you haven’t already.
28. SET UP FOLLOWUPS
If you want to keep the love
momentum rolling, you’re going to
need to set up more dates. Don’t
expect her to give it up or become
totally comfortable with you until at
a least the 3rd or 4th date.
In other words, you’ve got to work
for it. And when you give her
something to look forward to down
the road, you are showing her you’ve
got a vested interest in her and that’s
magical.
Keep her busy and you are the only
one she will have time to focus on.
Need I say more?
29. GREAT LOVEMAKING IS
ESSENTIAL
Of course this depends on where you
are in building your relationship.
Something you don’t ever want to
forget is you need to make amazing
love to her. This means lots of kissing
and cuddling and not running out
the door shortly after.
If you do that, you’ll make her feel
cheap and used and there’s seriously
no love in that scenario.
Slow and steady wins the race. The
longer, the better.
30. BE PATIENT FOR “WHAT
ARE WE?â€
If you are serious about making this
girl fall for you, she needs to be the
one pushing to know where you
stand. When she asks this question,
it’s time to make sure you solidify the
fact you are her boyfriend and you
want to take your relationship to the
next level.
Step by step you will get there if you
play your cards right.
31. DEAL WITH HER
IMPERFECTIONS
No matter how hot you think she is,
everyone has imperfections. If she
gets a little emotionally crazy, just
deal with it. When she decides she
doesn’t want to wear makeup, you
better support her.
And no matter what, you are best to
ignore your innate need to flirt with
other women. Just don’t please.
32. TELL HER YOU LOVE HER
This is a tough one for many guys
because it makes you vulnerable and
opens the door to possible rejection.
Usually, it’s the girl that says the L
word first but not always.
Put it all out there and tell her you
love her and she’s going to fall head
over heels in love with you.
33. SHE’S GOT TO FEEL OUT
OF CONTROL
If you want a woman to fall for you,
then you need to gain the power
hand in the relationship. Keep in
mind if you are chasing her like a
weak puppy, she will get bored with
you fast.
You need to get her chasing you a
little and your love will be golden.
34. ELUSIVE TAKES THE CAKE
The guy needs to be the one that
starts and finishes communication.
She needs to be the one reaching out
to you and you can get back to her
here and there.
Make sure she knows she isn’t your
everything. But on the flip side, she
still needs to feel important.
Be elusive but don’t overdo it. If you
aren’t ever there for her, there’s no
way she can fall in love with you.
35. BE MYSTERIOUS
You don’t have to answer every
question she asks. In fact, when you
are a little vague or mysterious, you
are going to draw her in for more.
When a girl’s curiosity is peaked, she
will look for ways to peel your layers
and gain more connection.
You can take it from here.
36. CREATE ADDICTION
When you can become her addiction
or better yet obsession, you’ve just
sealed the deal. Never forget that
girls are great at playing the game so
you need to be wary and cautious.
In order for you to create addiction,
you need to drop off the radar from
time to time and master the art of
slipping back in unannounced.
37. CHALLENGING IS GOOD
We all like a challenge. Keep in
mind, as humans, we always want
what we don’t have. Use this to your
advantage.
Don’t be afraid to challenge her and
be a challenge. It will help you make
her fall for you pronto.
FINAL WORDS
When you are figuring out how to
make a girl fall in love with you,
there are oodles of factors to
consider. Take each of these tips,
tricks and pointers into
consideration and follow her lead.
Show her your confidence and create
a plan to make her crazy about you.
You can do it.
