Most guys are fond of asking ladies the wrong questions during conversation.
It’s not always easy in trying to understand the girl you like, even when you’ve been together for a long time. It is good to have some designed questions to get into her.
Below is some of the best question to ask a girl you like during conversation with her:
1. If you had a time travel ticket, where would you go to?
Now she has a ticket to go back in time and she is never coming back, which year will she go to? Will it be in the past? To the year 1980, or will she go to the future? To the year 2050 with space travel and teleportation. Not only will this question tell you whether she longs for the past or dream of the future, but it also leads to fun and interesting conversation.
2. Would you rather live in the city or the woods? Why?
Would she rather live in the crowded constant action of the city? Or the calm, peaceful tranquility of the woods? This simple question forces her to choose between two opposites and tells you if she’s looking for the same type of life you are living.
3. If I gave you 10 million naira right now, what will you do with it?
Now she has free money in her pocket, what is she going to spend it on? Will she blow it on shopping or the first available plane ticket to a tropical paradise? Or is she the practical type who put the money in the bank or pays off some student loan debt? It really doesn’t matter what the answer is, the real question is that if your income were shared, would you agree with her choice?
4. When was the first time you broke the law?
It sounds funny but was she a rebel or an angel when she was young? Or she has never broken any law in her life? It is important to point out that this is the first time she broke the law not the last time. That simply means you are asking her about her first mistake and her first adventures. She may tell you about her past or her younger self.
5. What’s your favorite holiday?
Does she want to decorate gingerbread house at Christmas? Or does she hate the holiday altogether? Guys we all know the holiday can cause huge amount of stress for couples, but this question will tell you exactly what she’s looking for in a holiday spent with you, and it will help you to prepare and make the most of the special time together.
6. What is your idea about a date?
What does she want to do on a night out with you? Something calm like dinner and a movie or snuggling on the couch? Or something extreme like jumping off a bridge or river rafting? This question can tell you how your girl defines fun together. And will give you a better idea on how to keep her happy and feeling loved.
7. What’s one of your secrets I don’t know yet?
This question is completely opening ended which means she’ll tell you one or two things. She might tell you something fun or she may tell you something serious like a personal story from her past you didn’t know. Whatever the answer may be, it’s sure to start an interesting conversation that often give you invaluable insight into her and who she is.
8. If you could take a two weeks’ vacation anywhere in the world, where will you go?
She can go any where for two weeks, where will she choose to go? Vegas? Paris? Rome? Berlin? Where ever it is, realize that a vacation is an escape from the everyday stress. So, is her escape parting in Paris?. Or is it a two weeks rest on the beach? She probably feels overworked or overly stressed. If you can understand where she wants to escape to, you will have an idea of what stress her, and how to help her.
9. If you could have one superpower, what would it be and how would you use it?
This question is a fun conversation starter, and it tells you somethings about the inner her. Does she want to fly because she’s looking for adventure? Does she want to teleport because she loves to travel? This is a greet question to ask because it indirectly give you an idea of what she’s looking for in life. And as a bonus, it even tells you how to help her get what she wants and needs.
10. What do you do to rejuvenate yourself when you are stressed?
This question sounds very funny and can be ask on a casual date. This is one of the important things to know about the girl you like, because if you are interested in her, is your duty to know what makes her happy and how she manages stress, so that you can be by her side whenever she needs you.
