[b][/b][color=#990000][/color]I know many ladies will like to read this, but don't blame men
o, life itself is hard.
Well, there are series of reasons some men have refused to
leave the single life alone for small boys, i know you know
some, here are few of those reasons i can think of as at the
time of this post.
1. Financial Ground
It is never easy to rule the home without the cash, despite the
hardness many men still think they must store that millions
before settling down, however, they are those you will find in
bars, hotels and the likes after working hours wasting part of
the money they should have kept doing fine boy; with such
attitude i just wonder when the millions will complete.
Meanwhile, they have one lady they keep wasting her time,
asking her to continue praying for devine favour so that they
can take her to the altar.
Some men, no matter how hard they try things still get harder,
no stable job or anything, i wouldn't blame those who fall in
this category.
At times we can't blame these men with the kind attitude our
ladies portray this days.
2. Observing The Lady
Some guys don't actually know what they want, they place
lady under observation, if you ask them what's up they will
reply with their usual verbiage, "i am still observing her jare",
this is not because of finance or any other thing, but because
they want to explore everything explorable.
After they have done everything they should have done inside
marriage while courting they will now look for excuse to
discharge the innocent babe... There is God o.
3. Parental Influence
There are many of these guys that will never learn how to take
decisions on their own even after 30 years of age, their parent
instruct them on everything to do, meanwhile, some of these
our parents are selfish, they want to keep having all your
resources for themselves thinking you will lose that financial
concentration on them to the lady, hence, they will keep
condemning all your choices, non will be better till you open ya
eyes.
No one is saying you shouldn't obey some of this kind of
parents, but we have to know how to play the game so as to
make it all balance, once you decide they will not have option
than to follow you, but there will be problem if the cash isn't
going their way, that us where you need to know how to deal
with it all.
4. The Big Boy Gang
Those in this category will never marry till very late 30s and
early 40s. They want to enjoy the wealth before they decide
finally. They are the ones all the big girls around knows, they
are those that will be spraying money where they are not
needed just to remain relevant in irrelevant places.
The money to wed or to spend when the woman is home isn't
their problem a bit. They usually say it is better to enjoy the
wealth before they are caged, meanwhile after they get married
they still go back to those things secretly, they are those that
must not hear their wife speak with a man let alone hugging the
man.
5. They Don't See Anything Special
This is one reason some men don't marry till very late. They
never see anything special in any woman no matter what she
is or how she looks.
You will keep seeing them with different ladies as they get tired
of one easily. They are the kind ladies keep following about, yet,
nothing good in any of them. At the end they will either be
compelled to get married or one be forced on them. At times
they will not also have choice than to take the lady to the altar
after the lady has mistakenly been put in the family way.
6. Religious Ground
One big reason some men will not get married till their religious
leader can't bear it any more is because of their over belief.
To them, for any lady to appeal to their senses such lady must
share same belief with them. Their faith has covered every
sense of their reasoning, hence, they expect you to be perfect.
They are quick to condemn the cloth, makeup, choice of words
and the like to the extent that nothing you do is perfect and
inline with religious teaching.
These kind of men understands the Bible than their pastor, they
don't have the time to give room for mistake, their kind can
never be God as they are ready to throw anyone in the fire
even before they commit sin.
With those attitude they can never get married until they are
forced or raped.
7. Village People
Lol, there are many men out there that because of their sin or
that of their fore-fathers or even immediate parents they will be
cursed.
At times, those village people might have seen that when he
gets married his finance will turnaround, they will just change
everything for him, people around him will just notice he keeps
hating every lady that are supposed to be best for him.
The solution is to go completely spiritual to cleanse the man off
the curse.
