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Romance / Ladies And Gentlemen, by Dsmart1: 07:45 pm On 1 Jan 2019
Ladies And Gentlemen,
Nothing is more beautiful than a partner
who can face Temptations and still have a
high level of Maturity and Discipline to say
"this isn't worth loosing what I have"...
.
Do not loose what is Real just to chase
what only appears to be.
.
May God give you a faithful partner who
will never flirt with your feelings, but
forever treasure you, Amen!

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Romance / Your Beauty Is Nothing When Your Heart Is Dirty by Dsmart1: 07:36 pm On 1 Jan 2019
YOUR BEAUTY IS NOTHING WHEN YOUR HEART
IS DIRTY.
So many times I see alot of people who have
all it takes in physical beauty but their heart
is as dirty as a dumping ground.
What is beauty/cuteness without a good
heart to accompany it??? Many have
assumed that their physical beauty will solve
every other thing in their life because to
them they feel all what people want is
BEAUTY/
HANDSOMENESS but they failed to
understand that anybody can be beautiful
but your heart stands you out, never make
the mistake of assuming that your beauty is
enough, never assume that you will get
away with anything because of your beauty
because people will end up hating your so
called beauty BUT NOTE!!!! No one can
please everybody but let the people
speaking GOOD OF YOU BE GREATER THAN
THOSE WHO DON'T.
NO MAN IS AN ISLAND.
When one have a beautiful heart plus the
outward beauty it becomes a PLUS for her
but when you don't it becomes a waste of
beauty.
CROWN THAT BEAUTY/HANDSOMENESS OF
YOURS WITH A GOOD HEART.

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Romance / The Power In Your Choice. by Dsmart1: 07:26 pm On 1 Jan 2019
THE POWER IN YOUR CHOICE.
One day you will wake up and realize that
great spouses are not scarce like we
commonly think.
The problem is that people don't just look
out for value and true love as much as they
look out for beauty and cuteness.
One day you will either regret or be glad you
made the choices you are making right
now!
Get your priorities right because one day
you will wake up and s*x will not be it, looks
will pale into some insignificance and you
will ask yourself, 'what am I doing here'?
There is more to relationship than pleasure.
The chips will be down someday and both
of you will have to manifest who you are.
As a single you are so powerful right now.
So the choice you make will significantly
define the rest of your life!
Points to ponder

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Romance / How To Be A Romantic Husband Without s*x by Dsmart1: 12:24 am On 1 Jan 2019
HOW TO BE A ROMANTIC HUSBAND WITHOUT
s*x
.
Carry your wife to the bed when she sleeps
off in the sitting room, make her feel like a
baby at times. The truth is, every woman
wants to be treated like a 2-year-old girl at
times, that's why women behave childish or
silly at times.
.
You may have an argument with your wife
and the next thing is that you will see her
putting her bags outside the house, it
doesn't mean she is asking for a divorce,
she is just being childish, she simply wants
you to hold her, look her in the eyes and say
"I am sorry for the argument"
.
Brothers, when your wife steps on your feet
intentionally or mistakenly, don't let your
eyes turn red, just smile at her, if she did it
intentionally, she is just playing with you, if
she did it mistakenly, its not her fault. So
why shout at her over every small mistake?
.
As a man learn to ignore some things, don't
be petty. Some men are feminist; Do "hide
and seek" with your wife, sing poems for
your wife in the garden or inside the house,
even if she is teasing you.
.
Assist her in the house chores, pound yam,
fetch water, don't make her look like your
maid. Bathe together, wake her up for
prayers, swim with her if it's available, cook
together, teach her how to cook if she
doesn't know how to cook. Cooking is not
the ticket to Paradise. It's not only a
feminine duty.
.
Use blind folds to cover her eyes and tickle
her, scare her at times, call her from work/
school, text her, write "I love you" in a small
note and put it under her pillow or in her
purse or in her bathroom or in her
cosmetics box or inside her cupboard. Kiss
her always, cuddle her, pamper her and play
with her hair. Always tell her, she's beautiful
and that you're happy to have her as your
partner.
.
All these are part of being romantic...When a
woman tells you that you are not romantic.
It means you are not doing all these things,
its not the romance in the bedroom she is
talking about..

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Romance / Mature Way Of Being In A Relationship by Dsmart1: 12:21 am On 1 Jan 2019
MATURE WAY OF BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP
1. Be Patient With Your Partner: Avoid
forcing your lover to do something
against his or her wish. Let everything
happen in the right time. There is no
need to rush.
2. Be An Understanding Partner: Try to
believe what your lover tells you, if he
tells you that he failed to get airtime to
call you, try to understand. He’s also a
human being like you. If she tells you
that by the time you called her, she was
asleep–please try to understand. She
also gets tired and she needs to rest like
any other person.
3. Always Forgive And Forget: Avoid
bringing back the old things your lover
did to you in the past every time you get
a quarrel.
4. Be Caring: I don’t mean you should
go and borrow money from the bank
and friends to buy costly things for your
partner or taking him or her to
expensive hotels. I mean doing the little
things that suits your wallet. Trust me if
your lover is understanding he/she will
appreciate and love you that way.
5. Maintain The Communication With
Your Partner: Try keeping in touch with
your partner, call or text him or her—At
least once in a day. Don’t allow your
lover to start missing you. Be closer in
any possible way.
6. Be Faithful And Trustworthy To Your
Partner: I know you may be far away
from your partner. Sometimes, you may
start doubting him or her, and you start
thinking that maybe he or she is
cheating on you. and because of that,
you also start flirting and sleeping
around with different people—which
isn’t good at all. Fight those false
thoughts so that they don’t take you off
track. If you really love him or her, Trust
in your partner and be faithful.
7. Avoid Listening To Rumors: these
rumors are spread by jobless people.
They keep gathering false information
and then they spread it to you. Majority
of them have intentions which aren’t
good. Some are even interested in your
lover, they admire the way he/she cares
and loves you. So give them a deaf ear

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Romance / For The Fact That Fake Love Exist Is A Proof That There Is Something Called True Love by Dsmart1: 12:18 am On 1 Jan 2019
FOR THE FACT THAT FAKE LOVE EXIST IS A
PROOF THAT THERE IS SOMETHING CALLED
TRUE LOVE.
Alot of times we cry and go through
emotional stress because of the pains we
have experienced in life, other times we
blame ourselves for the pains we are
experiencing not because we are at fault
but because we are looking for an excuse to
justify the hurt we feel.
Many people have little or no believe that
TRUE LOVE STILL EXIST because of the pains
of their past, others assume that true love is
only but a fairly tale but am here today to tell
you THAT TRUE LOVE STILL EXIST, THAT YOU
HAVE EXPERIENCED THE FAKE LOVE SHOULD BE
A PROOF THAT THERE MUST BE SOMETHING
CALLED TRUE LOVE, Don't look at the hurt you
feel but rather look at the advantages in the
disadvantages, the person that hurt you
might have done that ignorantly or because
he don't know your worth.
I have come to understand one thing in life
and that is... NO MATTER HOW SOMEBODY
LOOKS OR ACTS THERE MUST BE SOMEONE
WHO LOVE THEM EXACTLY THE WAY THEY ARE.
Never make the mistake of assuming that
they disappointed you because you are not
beautiful or handsome enough but rather
see it as they left you for someone much
much better than them to occupy that space
they created, I understand the pains is not
easy and I understand if you close your
heart to love but remember no one is worth
stopping your life for, smile and look
forward to happy days ahead.
UNTIL A MISTAKE IS BEEN MADE THERE WILL
BE NO NEED FOR CORRECTION so see the
pains and tears as part of life experiences.
People leave a good product not because of
anything but because they can't afford it,
you are too precious to be a second choice,
you are too beautiful/cute to be taken for
granted.... Carry your head up because in
you is hidden treasures that only the lucky
man/woman will live to enjoy.
I love you and I want you to still believe that
true love exist and I promise you that
sooner or later your soulmate will locate you
and when that happens you will understand
that the previous person was not good
enough for you that was why they left you
in the first place and you will see how the
present person will value everything others
took for granted but until then BE HAPPY.

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Romance / Loving Your Spouse Doesn't Mean You'll Wake Up Every Morning Excited by Dsmart1: 12:13 am On 1 Jan 2019
Loving your spouse doesn't mean you'll
wake up every morning excited to be and
to see your spouse. The reality of marriage
is that some days you wake up and look at
your spouse and wonder what you were
thinking when married him or her.
Disappointmentsare real in marriage. Hurts
are unavoidable in marriage. But true love
is shown by the way you treat your spouse
in moments when he or she least deserves
it. It is when you decide to treat him or her
with respect and courtesy even when
you're disappointed with him or her.

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Romance / Dear Ladies by Dsmart1: 12:11 am On 1 Jan 2019
A man who physically abuses you before
marriage is not worth a minute of your time.
Do not be deceived by his fake apologies. If
ever a guy physically abuses you or even
threatens to harm you; thank God, quit the
relationship right away, delete his number
and run for your life. You have one life to
live; do not waste it by joining yourself with
someone who does not value you. Never be
tempted to think that he will change his
ways after marriage; it usually gets worse.
Abusers belong in jail not in your life and
certainly not in your heart. If you are
married to an abuser; do not die in silence
and do not wait until it is too late. Don't die
for your children; live for them. A dead
parent does her children no good. Seek help
now!

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Romance / Advice To Those Falling In Love by Dsmart1: 12:09 am On 1 Jan 2019
ADVICE TO THOSE FALLING IN LOVE:
1. When you fall in love make sure it's with
somebody who treats you exactly how you
deserve to be treated.
2. Love somebody who wants to know
everything about you,from your favorite
color to your childhood memories how you
managed to survive all those years.
3. Love somebody who can make you
laugh,who kisses your forehead and who
notices all your flaws but chooses to see
past
them.
4. Love somebody who listens to whatever
is on your mind,who protects you and
always reminds you how blessed they are to
have found you.
5. Love somebody who you can't stay mad
at for more than an hour because you miss
speaking to them,who knows every freckle
on your face, every stretch mark on your
thighs, every scar and every tear.
6. Love somebody who you can plan your
future with,and most importantly love
somebody who is God fearing.
7. And lastly don't forget to make them feel
loved in return.
*do you agree ??

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Romance / Your V*g*na Doesn’t Ever Need Soap, by Dsmart1: 12:06 am On 1 Jan 2019
Your V*g*na Doesn’t Ever Need Soap, And
Other Honest Advice.
First and foremost, quit putting soap down
there and don’t douche. The V*g*na is a self-
cleaning oven.
Hot water NO, lets make it warm. Just really
clean the exterior of the V*g*na and in the
crevices and folds. What I recommend is to
make [your V*g*na] the first thing you clean
when you get in the shower. Before you get
the soap or the sponges out, just self clean
the V*g*na with your hand and water only.
The V*g*na was never designed to smell like
a flower or fruit. We’re really big on putting
smell-goods in the V*g*na. It’s supposed to
have a particular odor, but not an offensive
odor, and as women really want it to smell
like perfume.
Don’t try to change the odor of the V*g*na; it
is a God-given odor. Throughout the day yes
we sweat and you notice it more, but please
don’t use perfumes and especially powder.
Powder creates an increased risk of ovarian
cancer. So keep the powders out of the
V*g*na too.
I do hear some ladies say they use Honey or
lime orange to wash their V well I do believe
its wrong.

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Romance / A Joyful Heart Brings Love To All Season! by Dsmart1: 12:03 am On 1 Jan 2019
A joyful heart brings love to all season!
Woman, your beauty is sweet, but a
beautiful face without a happy, smiling,
cheerful and joyful character is disastrous!
No man wants to marry sadness for a wife.
Your outside expression reflect what your
inner man is built or made of. Your strong
and scary face will only but drive people
away from reaching you, even suitors. Every
responsible man wants to marry a woman
who can cheer him up when he's down and
the smiles on a woman's face can made her
husband's day without any interruption.
Woman, you have the gift to make your man
happy, stop carrying a strong face
everywhere, learn to always smile even
when situations gets so bad. Your smile can
heal a wounded soul. And your own man
might even be watching.

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Romance / Every Relationship Should Have A Definition. by Dsmart1: 12:00 am On 1 Jan 2019
Every relationship should have a definition.
For example
- Friends with benefits
- Dating to break up someday
- Dating to hand over to real boo
- Just eating and having s*x
- Just for knacks
- Billing relationship
- Emergency boyfriend/girlfriend
- Dating for marriage.
Define it and deceive no one.

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Romance / How To Love Or Please Your Man by Dsmart1: 11:58 pm On 1 Jan 2019
How To Love Or Please Your Man
.
I have actually being asked this question
several times. How do I show my man that I
truly love him or how do I please my man?
It's a good thing wanting to please our
partner but you know what? I think there's
really no point asking someone how to love
or please your man. What I'll advise is that
you take note of whatsoever lessons you've
learnt, pick the useful ones and modulate it
to your advantage. How do you implement
that in your relationship? It is just by;
studying your man, know his likes/dislikes,
do fact findings on how to penetrate his
heart, etc. You know him better, so you
should be able to get those facts.
Please, I advise that you don't allow yourself
to be overwhelmed by the stories you hear,
what worked for someone else might not
work for you. If someone tells you the way
to enjoying your relationship is by calling
your man early and praying for him, what if
he doesn't like to receive calls early in the
morning? If someone tells you that how to
love your man is by respecting his
independence, what if he doesn't like that?
What if someone tells you the best way to
love your man is by giving him space, what
if he hates that? You know you will just
complicate matter for yourself.
The only way to please or love your man is
by studying him, get facts about him, know
what he wants and doesn't want, then use
it. Don't forget, what rocks someone else's
boat might sink yours.
Hope you grab the message?

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Romance / Dont Tolerate A Partner That Does Not Makes You Feel Loved by Dsmart1: 11:56 pm On 1 Jan 2019
If you continue to tolerate a partner that
does not makes you feel loved and cared for,
you have indirectly created a system that
does not feed you, energize you or bring
out the best in you. You have chosen to
dwell on relationships that receives more
than it gives.
You will grow weak, weary and old easily,
because you don't love yourself enough to
initiate relationships that takes care of you.
Stop settling for relationships that does not
have your interest at heart either as a man
or a woman. If your partner is not
responsible over making you feel loved and
cared for and they take a lot without
responsibility of reciprocating, then that
relationship is unhealthy to you.
Of what use is a relationship if it denies you
of love, care and affection.
Mind the kind of relationship that you settle
for.
Make sure that you build systems of
relationships that naturally feeds you and
make you feel loved and cared for. This will
help you live long, maximize your life and
potentials.
Relationship where love and care is not
reciprocated, is parasitic and unhealthy to
you.
Don't give irresponsible partners the
notions that they can be irresponsible and
still have you.
Be bold enough not to be taken for granted
or treated with much disdain.

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Romance / Chatting Tips by Dsmart1: 11:53 pm On 1 Jan 2019
Chatting Tips
.
Kindly learn to give your partner a sense of
love, closure, assurance, confidence and
trust by sensitively responding to their
chats.
You don't leave your partner's chat
unattended to and still be online chatting
intimately with other people.
Your partner is supposed to be your
number one fan.
Treat your partner with love and care, even
their chats and posts should be on your
priority list.
When they share a post, read, comment, like
and share your thoughts on it. This will
encourage them to want to chat more,
express more and love you more.

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Romance / Re: 1990 Ring Bearer And Little Bride Later Turned Husband And Wife In 2018 (photos by Dsmart1: 12:23 am On 1 Jan 2019
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Romance / How To Love Or Please Your Man by Dsmart1: 08:39 pm On 1 Jan 2019
How To Love Or Please Your Man
.
I have actually being asked this question
several times. How do I show my man that I
truly love him or how do I please my man?
It's a good thing wanting to please our
partner but you know what? I think there's
really no point asking someone how to love
or please your man. What I'll advise is that
you take note of whatsoever lessons you've
learnt, pick the useful ones and modulate it
to your advantage. How do you implement
that in your relationship? It is just by;
studying your man, know his likes/dislikes,
do fact findings on how to penetrate his
heart, etc. You know him better, so you
should be able to get those facts.
Please, I advise that you don't allow yourself
to be overwhelmed by the stories you hear,
what worked for someone else might not
work for you. If someone tells you the way
to enjoying your relationship is by calling
your man early and praying for him, what if
he doesn't like to receive calls early in the
morning? If someone tells you that how to
love your man is by respecting his
independence, what if he doesn't like that?
What if someone tells you the best way to
love your man is by giving him space, what
if he hates that? You know you will just
complicate matter for yourself.
The only way to please or love your man is
by studying him, get facts about him, know
what he wants and doesn't want, then use
it. Don't forget, what rocks someone else's
boat might sink yours.
Hope you grab the message?

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Romance / The Best Gift A Man Can Give A Woman by Dsmart1: 07:10 pm On 1 Jan 2019
The best gift a man can give a woman is; his
time, his attention, his love, his protection,
his trust and his support. I think when a
woman knows that she truly has a man in
her corner in a positive capacity, it is much
easier for her to bring her guard down to
love again. Most women don't have the best
track record when it comes to trusting men.
Most women have been through their own
share of abuse whether it be on a physical,
emotional or verbal level. To be honest,
sometimes a good man will scare a good
woman because he'll come off as too good
to be true. She'll look for his flaws first,
before she can truly appreciate what makes
him flawless in her eyes. When a woman
meets a man who is ready to give her the
love that she deserves, it will scare her at
first; and then it will leave her feeling
completely at peace.

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Romance / Ladies Stop Complicating Issues by Dsmart1: 06:34 pm On 1 Jan 2019
LADIES STOP COMPLICATING ISSUES
Ladies, sometimes you are the ones who
complicate your lives. When a man pursues
you but you are not interested, some of you
do fishy stunts.
1. Some of you keep asking money from the
man hoping that will deter him. A man who
is serious about pursuing you will not be
deterred by this, he will keep giving you the
money, some even go into debts just to
please you thinking that you are serious and
you need him. This is wrong and deceitful.
Stop using the man
2. Some of you get into a relationship with a
man just to pass time knowing very well you
are not serious about him. You even get to
have s*x with him, or entertain him in your
chats, or use him to run your errands then
when you are done you drop him and
expect him to be fine yet you led him on
3. Some of you pretend you have a man to
keep off the man pursuing you. You lie that
you have a man or that you are married, you
even go to the extent of wearing a fake
marriage ring and change your relationship
status to "in a relationship" or "married" to
keep off one man or a few men you don't
like then you are the same person who
complains that you are still single. Even if
your future spouse was to spot you, he will
not make a move thinking you are taken. By
lying to the men you don't want, you end up
chasing away the man you would want
4. Some of you when the man you are not
interested in pursues you, instead of giving
him an answer you keep him hanging,
entertaining him, pulling his leg because you
love his attention. This is not fair, giving him
false hopes
Uncomplicate your life, stop trying tricks. Let
your yes be yes and your no be no. Teach
yourself how to say a firm NO.
In fact, both men and women, learn to be
direct. When someone you are not
interested in makes a move on you, tell them
straight up "NO! I am single, but you and I
cannot be". Release them early so that they
focus their energy in finding someone who
will be interested in them.
Grown ups can handle rejection, what
wrongs them is someone who plays mind
games. Be straight forward.

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Pets Lovers / Advice To Men by Dsmart1: 06:30 pm On 1 Jan 2019
[color=#990000][/color]ADVICE TO MEN !! !! !! !! !! !! !!
.
1. Having many girlfriends does not make
you a man. It only makes you a womanizer
and a cheat and a boy.
.
2. A real man has only one woman in his life.
Instead of making your woman jealous
make the whole world jealous of her.
.
3. For the fact that you are good in bed does
not make you a man. A real man is the man
who does not run away from his
responsibility but faces it squarely. # fact
.
4. You don't need to sag your trousers and
walk round the street before girls will love
you. Infact it is only small boys that sag
trousers and it is premature little girls that
fall in love with men who sag trousers.look
responsible!
.
5. Don't use and dump ladies. Remember the
law of karma. Whatever you do, you will
receive the reward. A times we don't know
where our problems come from
.
6. If you cannot make her your wife, don't
make her a mother. Think twice before you
go in
.
7. Do not obey your erection at all times.
Most times our erections mislead us to the
wrong direction. Control your erection. Don't
let your erection control you.
.
8. It is not everything you see under skirt
that you should hustle to eat, some skirts
contain snakes that will bite you. Control
your s*x urge. Self control and abstinence
pays a lot.
.
9. Do not date a lady because she has s*xy
curves, boobs and shapes. Date her cause
she has a functional brain which can build a
home.
.
10. Respect any lady that loves you.don't
take advantage of their feelings, let go on
time if u can't return it.
.
11. Do not beat any woman, even if she is
your wife.
.
12. Real men don't gossip.
13. Spend more time to hustle for money.
Real and wise men use their time to think
and plan on how to be financially successful.
Foolish men use their time to think and plan
on how to sleep with many girls. It takes a
real man to understand that one woman is
enough
14. Cheating is stress, apart from the fact
that u recharge twice, you gotta keep
deleting, lying, hiding and locking your
phones
.
15. The world only celebrates successful
men. Nobody will celebrate you for having
many girlfriends. Therefore what is the
benefit?c
16. A real man keeps to his words.
.
BE A WISE MAN !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !!

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