A Psychologist has come up with some of the
following problems that bedevil people in their
search for a fantastic s*x life; ‘Am I so small?’
Many men are obsessed with the size of their
P*n*s.
But they should realize that it is not the size
that matters. In any case, P*n*ses are often of
different sizes when limp, but when erect,
become a similar size. “Am I good enough in
bed?†Why not ask your partner? One woman
may find one man brilliant in bed; another
woman may find that same man not
satisfying at all. Communication is the answer
to find out what your partner likes.
Men: “If I don’t want s*x, will she think less of
me?†Not if you don’t think less of her when
she doesn’t feel like having s*x. Contrary to
popular belief, men aren’t always ready for s*x
at any time. Like women, they have to be in
the mood. That doesn’t mean to say that,
sometimes, it is not kind to have s*x with your
partner if he or she desperately wants it, even
if you are not that keen.
“My partner never has an orgasm, so, I know
I’m bad in bed. What can I do about it?†If she
doesn’t seem to mind and says she enjoys s*x
with you, then don’t worry, it is her problem
not yours. And since a lot of women never
have an orgasm during s*x, it may well not be
a problem at all. For heaven’s sake, if she
says s*x is fine for her, don’t nag her about
her lack of orgasm, it will just put pressure on
her.
Women: “I’ve read that I should never fake an
orgasm, but I do sometimes. Is it wrong?†If
you fake orgasms constantly and feel
frustrated, then it is not wrong. Simply silly.
Tell your man what you want and you might
get more enjoyment.
“I only feel like having s*x in the middle of the
month. Am I odd?†Most women, if they keep a
diary, find that they feel s*xier at certain
times of the month. Some find they feel
s*xiest at the time just between periods, when
they are most fertile; some prefer s*x just
after a period when they feel relaxed, and
others fancy s*x just before or even during a
period. Work out when you feel s*xiest and
make sure your partner knows.
