Is good to be in love. Everybody knows that but apply God's wisdom in your relationship. Stop using the so called 'instinct' to guide your steps, you will end up finding yourself where you don't want to be. Stop the wrong use of words in relationship- "i will die any day you leave, i will die the day you die, i will not marry anybody the day you leave me" those words are wrong, some people say them unconsciously without knowing the effect of those words. There is power in the word. Genesis 1vs 3-"AND GOD SAID...." HE used the power in the word and it was so. Matthew 8vs8...'but just say the word' and my servant will be healed. The word was said and the servant was healed. There is power in the word, use the words rightly- James 3vs 6-8. A man had been married for fifteen years. He died just of recent. The lawyer came and told the family that none of his houses and company was willed to his children, wife or parents but all was willed to his ex-girlfriend. They all went to the bank to ask for his account, the officer said the wife's name was not the next of kin but another person who was the ex-girlfriend. His(the dead man's parents) parents shouted and said so many words but they told them that, we can't go against what is written here. This (the dead man)man thought he will marry his ex,so he willed everything for her forgetting to change it after marriage. They invited the lady to divert all to the wife and children of the man. She said, she suffered with the man from the beginning and the parents are aware of it, it was when he met someone beautiful than her that he left her for the woman. This was how she left with everything without giving them anything. She sent the woman packing out of the house with her children. (BE WISE) TWO people who were in a relationship both base in Abuja. The lady has a shop while the man was a business man. The man came one day and said, i need 50thousand to clear somethings, i already have 50thousand. The lady willingly gave it to him(he has never asked of such before the lady said and we've been together for five years) The man came back after two weeks and gave the lady 500thousand. The lady was very happy, she told all her friends about it and all of them told her its true love;its always hard to find, please stick to this man and worship him. She bought goods with the money. A year after the man came knocking at the door crying(we all know its hard to see some men cry but if you see them cry then it means something must be wrong) This lady was surprised and asked what the problem was, the man said, i saw some goods at a very cheap price,the man who sells the goods said, if he doesn't hear from me tomorrow he will sell it to someone else. The lady was mad at him, 'is this why you are in tears, i thought something evil had happened, you don't have to be like this', how much is the money. The man said, its 3million but i only have 50thousand with me, please hold this 50thousand, let me go and meet my friends tomorrow. The lady said, he should sleep over because they will both go to the bank the next day. The lady returned the 50thousand to the man, gave him 2.5million and also borrowed 500thousand from her friend to complete the 3million the man asked for, they both wave at each other outside the bank with a smile of good bye.(she was duped at last) He allowed her to trust him and surprise her from 50thousand to 500thousand. Seven years of relationship wasted, 7years of her life wasted with a man she thought was the best. Hmmm, be wise in the Lord. Your instinct cannot take you anywhere. I wonder if a God fearing sister or brother will pay people with evil,its impossible because the fear of God lives in them. Don't use your instinct to choose a life partner. Let God do the choosing of a God fearing young man or lady for you, who will understand your language in the Lord when God is directing. (2CORINTHIANS 6VS 14-18 AND 1ST CORINTHIANS 13VS 4-7) I CALL YOU BLESSED.
