Yes. I confirmed it myself that Dele (name withheld) is the will of God for me.
Is it the regular peace of mind you wanna talk about or the fact that his calls come in whenever I finished praying to God for confirmation about him? or the B*tterflies that dances in my belle?
I prayed, I fasted and of course I got confirmation from my friends Becky and Bella (name withheld).
I have no reason not to say yes to him. He is just somehow like what I wanted in a man. We share the same faith in the same denomination.
After a long weeks of prayer and fasting and waiting on God, I felt within me that I should go ahead and get married to Dele.
I was convinced that he is the Will of God for me.
The journey began. The first year of the courtship was a bit rosy. And there was no cause for alarm.
To cut the long story short, I ended the so called God's will relationship. And that was after I could no longer withstand his improper ways of handling things.
I don't even care if he had already met my parent.
I don't care if I have spoken with his parents.
I don't care if my friends already knew him to be mine.
As long as he is behaving wrongly with his s*xual urge, ladies urge and character, I just don't care! I just wanna be free and so I just walked out of it and just like that, the feelings flew off my heart window as well as the B*tterflies as there was no music for them anymore.
Then I wonder "but I got my confirmation. My friends did too! Then what happened did I hear wrongly?"
I realised that it is not a bad thing to call off a relationship that is leading you against God's will.
If the relationship is not bringing pleasure to God, It is no longer the will of God.
The moment the relationship starts heading to the wrong direction and none or one of you is not ready to yield to God's way, is the moment to let go of it before talking about legalising marriage.
The question is, this so called God's will relationship that I am into, is it still pleasing to God?
Is it building us up?
Is it helping us build on our strength?
Is it helping us to work on our weaknesses or indulge in it?
Am I still feeling peacefully peaceful?
Are we medically compatible?
You may wanna ask? Can God's will be wrong?
My answer is God's Will as long as it has human factor is subjected to change. God's will in itself is not wrong but the human in it can go wrong.
Remember Saul, the same God who appointed him also rejected him simply because of his inability to yield to God's Will.
Aside from the fact that you are God's will for someone, it is important for you to Work On Yourself to Show thyself Approved by God and Worthy of whatever you're meant to do.
Don't be blinded by emotional lies.
Don't be shy to walk away.
Don't be pressured by friends and family who won't stay to experience your marriage with you.
In all things, If it doesn't please God, don't let it stay.
The Best is on the way!
Merciful Monday to us all.
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